PDA, or on being told to write about blue tile
Around 2016, someone mentioned to me, for the first time, the term Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) —a term which I rejected...
No More Regulation
Photo by Andrew Davis I am heretofore removing the word ‘regulation’ and its subsidiaries, ‘down-regulation,’ ‘up-regulation,’...
How to Find a Neurodiversity-Affirming Couples Therapist
A neurodiversity- affirming couples/relationship counselor: Recognizes relational issues may not pertain to neurotype difference, and may...
It's Not a Window & It's About More than Tolerance.
There’s a construct in trauma psychology called The Window of Tolerance. Maybe you heard of it years ago; maybe it’s brand new to you....
Taking Care in a Pandemic
Gumby and their friend (I should name them) are having a rough time with the coronavirus. All their activities are cancelled. Things keep...